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Of Simple Words & Simple Things

//* Quotes.. *//

Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery


The best proof of love is trust.
Joyce Brothers


You can't blame gravity for falling in love.
Albert Einstein


//* Me.. *//

Wan Ting
Pisces
Graduated & Idling
Sunny Island



//* Wishlist.. *//

Gremlins 1 & 2 dvd
Getaway w bf
More getaways
Graduation trip: Taipei
Laptop bag
Precious Moments
Snail mail
Long Vacation vcd
Love Generation vcd
Pirates of the Caribbean Triology vcd



//* Friends.. *//

Edwin
Jess
Qiulin
Xinyu
Zhihui
The Other Eden

BF's Biz Blog



//* Memories.. *//

January 2005
February 2005
March 2005
April 2005
May 2005
June 2005
July 2005
August 2005
September 2005
October 2005
November 2005
December 2005
January 2006
February 2006
March 2006
April 2006
May 2006
June 2006
July 2006
August 2006
September 2006
October 2006
November 2006
December 2006
January 2007
February 2007
March 2007
April 2007
May 2007
June 2007




//* Voices.. *//





Lilypie 4th Birthday Ticker



Thursday, May 31, 2007

Fortune


It comes not in the form of wealth, but in having a family and my doting parents. Even having a boyfriend can't beat that, especially when he's the reason of my unhappiness.


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Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Escapade No. 1


Following our Pulau Ubin getaway, Dear and I went to Batam for a short 2 days getaway. Frankly, Batam was a disappointment from what I remembered years ago. I thought there would be water sports to play, bungey jumping and lots more activities. Turned out that I was either at a wrong part of Batam, or the place just changed so much.







Hotel room and the facilities. Really big room. And nice view from the balcony.



Very tasty pizza. Dear can't stop having it! He probably ate like three quarter of it. And not to mention we ordered another one before we left on the last day.



Also had A&W at Nagoya. It's like a must-have, when I saw it. But it turned out to be just okay. They had no root beer float for the day though :|



Dear preparing for his 10mins foot reflexology. I want too! But no chance.. next time perhaps. Home bound at the ferry terminal.



The most enjoyable thing about the getaway is that we get to spend time with just each other. No distractions like his work. It's going to be a long wait before time like that comes around. In fact, I hope the next one would be a vacation, instead of just a short getaway.
The promise of 2008.




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Sunday, May 27, 2007

Power Quotient Report



Your POWER QUOTIENT is:






And your POWER STYLE is:



Your Power Quotient (PQ) measures the extent to which you understand and use your Power Style to get what you want in life. Your job, your relationships, your status — they're not just handed to you. Whether you recognize it or not, your Power Style affects how you approach people, accomplish your goals, and handle just about every situation.

Your PQ indicates that you're already using 76% of your innate people-power skills. But you can still improve by 24%. Once you understand more about your Power Style, there's nothing stopping you from becoming a true force of change in your world.



Your Power Style

Your power lies in your ability to use the various Power Styles called for in different situations. You have been known to be both a lone wolf and a team player depending on either the circumstance, or your mood at the time.

You are flexible and are not married to any one way of exerting influence. You understand when you need to take action and when you need to sit back and let nature take its course.

Sometimes you may feel the most effective method of getting what you want from people is by meeting them at their own level, taking their mindset into account and then working your influence. At other times, you believe that a straightforward — maybe even confrontational — tactic is necessary. To you, neither one is more effective — it's all a matter of using different strategies to exert your power in the world.



Your Power Profile

This graph breaks down the five dimensions that make up your Power Quotient. Each one plays a role in determining both your overall PQ score and Power Style. Understanding and strengthening these five dimensions is the key to raising your PQ.

Blame
Credit
Control
Tact
Directness
1 5 10


The first three dimensions — blame, credit, and control — are based on the following questions: When things are going well, to what extent do you take credit for success? To what degree do you blame others for the negative things that happen? Do you believe that you, or external forces, have control over events in your life?

The last two dimensions — tact and directness — refer to the relative number and kinds of strategies you have, and the frequency with which you utilize them. Are you more inclined to confront someone when you have a problem or are you going to find another way to get your point across?


Blame
Bad things happen to everyone, but not everyone interprets them in the same way. Some people consider all of their problems self-made, while others see outside forces — bad luck, bad karma, bad weather — acting against them.

The "Blame" graph looks at where you commonly assign responsibility for "negative" events in your life. Your score determines to what extent you think external influences have created unhappiness in your past and present. Your score is also a reflection of how you view negativity and failure in general.

Your Blame Score
Out of 10, your tendency to put blame on external forces is a 7:

Blame
1 5 10

What does this mean?
Your score indicates that you have a very balanced view on how you view negative events in your life. Though failures and disappointments happen to everyone, you usually take an honest inventory when something bad occurs. Sometimes you're inclined to blame everything but yourself for your problems and other times you understand you've played a strong role in how things have turned out. For you, the root of unfortunate events is unique to each situation.


Credit
While success is what everyone strives for, actually attaining it affects people differently. Some credit their successes to a higher power, while others regard their achievements simply as the product of hard work.

The "Credit" graph measures to what extent you think outside influences have created whatever happiness and success you currently possess. Your score is also a reflection of how you view achievement in general.

Your Credit Score
Out of 10, your tendency to attribute successes to external influences is a 6:

Credit
1 5 10

What does this mean?
Your score indicates that you have a balanced view when it comes to how you view the positive events in your life. Successes come and go, and you understand that your role in manifesting them is varied. You're fully aware of the fact that some good things need to be worked for, whereas others may come easily. More importantly, you are just as likely to think yourself responsible for a windfall as any outside influence.


Control
Navigating life requires us to constantly interpret our surroundings. We instinctually believe some things to be outside of our control, or driven by our environment, while others we see as directly under our influence.

The "Control" graph measures to what degree you view chance or fate as having played a role in your life thus far. Your score also sets the tone for how you approach life, and how much influence you believe you have on others.

Your Control Score
Out of 10, your tendency to believe that you are in control of life events is a 4:

Control
1 5 10

What does this mean?
Your score indicates that you have a very balanced view regarding the role of control in your life. There are times when you feel as though your choices and outcomes have been externally controlled, the result of chance or fate. However, there are also times when you understand you have arrived at your current place primarily through your own efforts. On the whole, you seem to have found a balance between these two extremes. This implies that you take a calculated approach rather than let your personal biases rule your judgments. You see clearly the limitations of your own actions.

Take Action
Recognizing that your life is fundamentally under your own control is an important step towards increasing your PQ. While this is something you may already understand intellectually, your score indicates that perhaps it's not a concept you've fully adapted yet.

Try to focus on those areas of your life, which are, to some degree, under your control. Think about the far-reaching effects that could arise from applying your influence in any one of these areas. This may include children, relationships, work, etc. Your sphere of influence is largely what you make of it. Keep this in mind, and you will shift the role chance seems to play in your life.

Shifting the Role of Control in your Life

Construct a list of the aspects of your life that you have direct control over (your performance at work, the way you treat your significant other, etc.).

Construct a list of the aspects of your life that you have an indirect influence over (the development of your children, the choices of your friends, etc.).

Construct a list of the aspects of your life that you have a slight or occasional influence over (political functions, social movements, etc.).

Track and recognize the extent of your reach in life, and resolve to use your power to better everything within your sphere of influence.




Tact
The "Tact" graph measures how many subtle power strategies you have available and how often you use them. Subtle strategies can define office politics and intimate relationships. Understated hints, telling body language and quiet but firm communication are all examples of subtle power strategies. At one end of the spectrum, subtle strategies can take the form of passive-aggressiveness and emotional manipulation and at the other end, they can be skilled diplomacy and heightened empathy. The more common ones, of course, fall somewhere in between.

Your "Tact" score determines the relative number of subtle power strategies your have at you disposal.

Your Tact Score
You are using 6 out of 10 subtle power strategies:

Tact
1 5 10

What does this mean?
You have some subtle strategies that you use on occasion. You understand how to how to be subtle with a recognizable level of skill, but you have other strategies that you may employ with greater frequency. In situations where others might find being subtle the preferable approach, you are just as likely to make use of a direct strategy.


Directness
The "Directness" graph measures how many direct power strategies you have at your disposal. In their most positive form, direct strategies are assertive and straightforward. Everyday examples include a firm handshake, an honest compliment and simply asking for what you want. Essentially, they are a form of give and take. At one end of the spectrum, direct strategies can take the form of extreme taking — theft and violence — and at the other end they can be extremely giving — altruism and charity. The more common ones, of course, fall somewhere in between.

Your "Directness" score determines the relative number of direct power strategies you have at your disposal.

Your Directness Score
You are using 6 out of 10 direct power strategies:

Directness
1 5 10

What does this mean?
This implies that you have some direct strategies that you use whenever they seem necessary. You know how to how to be straightforward with a recognizable level of skill, but you are probably just as likely to use more subtle methods of dealing with situations than you are overt ones.


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